Enchanting Thoughts

"You are known by the company you keep" Now we have all heard about this somewhere at some point in our life and some of you might have noticed how people around you can affect your life, it might be a small ripple but it can easily turn into waves but then if you are good and you are doing everything right then everything around you will turn good, right? maybe but sometimes what we don't realize is that the people around us can influence our decisions unconsciously and most of the time it starts with some small decisions like ripples on a surface which can quickly turn into big waves.                            Now what we have to realize is that the people we surround us with are the people that can help us grow or can make you feel stagnant, now they can question you but they can also help you and vice versa. you can learn together and there can be a friendly competition but at the end of the day they will be the ...

‘Enjoy the little things,for one day you may look back and realize they were big things’  -Robert Brault We often don't realize how small things can make a big difference in your life and we sometimes forget to appreciate these small things in life, the other day I was talking to a friend of mine and while talking I said ‘I want to go back to college and complain about how I don’t want to go to college’ and I just realized how much small things matter like no matter how much bad mood I am in just knowing that I can complain about it later and then laugh it all off is the best solution and just how easy it is to forget all your problem after a simple video call, it is just enough to put you in a good mood despite of what is going on around you and how watching sunset while sipping some coffee instantly calm you down and how we often forget that those simple and small things in our life that makes us forget all problems for a while and provide us with...

Recently I was talking to my grandpa about some plants he want to have in his garden so while talking he stated a fact of this java plum tree commonly know as jamun tree which for some reason got stuck in my head,he said the tree first starts to grow under the ground that basically  means it first starts to develop its roots and it will spread its roots as far as possible while the tree continues to grow so even if you cut down the whole tree,you won’t be able to cut its root off because they are strong and wide so the tree will just start growing again and after listening to that my mind went to something I have read, ’you can’t change what’s going on around you until you start changing what’s going on within you.' -Zig Ziglar             Now when I read this first time I thought about it a bit differently,I thought it just meant that you should concentrate on your own growth and it does mean that but more than that it...

   If you had to choose between two things: 1.The thing you want. 2.The thing that you need. What would you choose?             Now,the thing you ‘want' is the thing that you might or might not need in Future but the thing you ‘need’ is surely going to help you in your present.We often confuse our Wants with our Needs and these things can be as small as ’needing' to watch a new series or ‘wanting' to do a revision,this is how we confuse ourselves by interchanging our wants and needs although we know it is ’wanting' to watch a new series or ’needing' to do a revision.But the want sometimes overpowers the need but what you have to understand is watching a series may help you somewhere but by doing the revision you are helping yourself build your present eventually leading to your future.                   We all know what we need in our future and just by interchanging some simple words y...

Quote of the day:”Keep chasing your dreams." This was written on a board and when I first read it,I thought nothing of it but then the word ‘chasing’ got stuck in my mind.Chasing?was it the right word?I think chasing is kind of one of those last steps or maybe not?but,personally i feel rather than ‘chasing’ we should replace it with ‘pursuing’.                                                             “Always follow your dreams,but take your mind and heart with yourself.”Do not just start walking blindly,have a plan and set the goals.Now,the plan maybe a short term plan or a it may be a small goal,as small as having breakfast in morning or making some time to read even though it might be just 5 mins,it’s okay because the start is always going to be a bit difficult but it’s the amount of dedication and preparation you do that will s...

Have you ever been stuck in a situation or felt like you are glued to a point and everything around is moving but you?I guess we all have felt or experienced that at some point in one or the other way but the thing is when I look back at that,I realised one thing that we often tend to forget.                                            Sometimes,we need to stay where we are and let things come to us and I know it will feel like a very stagnant situation like you have been rooted to ground and there is no growth even though you are being watered and in times like this there is this urge to give up and that’s completely normal but the thing is rather than just giving up try to stop for a second and believe and then put a bit more effort and roll the dice and I know that you were already putting in the efforts but sometimes in that situation when you look around and see people mov...