SELF LOVE

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“But,Darling don’t forget to fall in love with yourself first”I think we all have heard this before and many of us has also heard that ‘self love’ is important but,why?Is it just because someone said that it is important to love yourself before you learn to love someone else?Absolutely no,we all loved people,our parents,friends before we even before we knew the definition of love but self love is important to set your standards,your priorities and most importantly for your self growth.
                                   Now,we always want the people we love to be happy,protected,cared and most importantly we do everything to show them that they are loved and who doesn’t want to feel loved?so we seek this love from our surroundings and that’s alright but sometimes if in the process what if someone you loved or someone who loves you have to leave you?Then we all feel disappointed or sad even we get frustrated sometimes but the truth is the love you are trying to seek from the whole universe is there inside you.
                  You are everything that a person is and even more and you have already proved that you are worth loving,you have survived this journey despite of your good and bad times,you always found or sometimes even made your way out and you will continue to do that so don’t wait for love to come,go love yourself in the best way possible because when you love someone you do everything to comfort them,love them,and what’s best for them no matter what the situation is so imagine doing that for yourself and how it will lead to your self growth and working on yourself is a never a waste of time.
                                                       -V

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