Enchanting Thoughts

   If you had to choose between two things: 1.The thing you want. 2.The thing that you need. What would you choose?             Now,the thing you ‘want' is the thing that you might or might not need in Future but the thing you ‘need’ is surely going to help you in your present.We often confuse our Wants with our Needs and these things can be as small as ’needing' to watch a new series or ‘wanting' to do a revision,this is how we confuse ourselves by interchanging our wants and needs although we know it is ’wanting' to watch a new series or ’needing' to do a revision.But the want sometimes overpowers the need but what you have to understand is watching a series may help you somewhere but by doing the revision you are helping yourself build your present eventually leading to your future.                   We all know what we need in our future and just by interchanging some simple words y...

Quote of the day:”Keep chasing your dreams." This was written on a board and when I first read it,I thought nothing of it but then the word ‘chasing’ got stuck in my mind.Chasing?was it the right word?I think chasing is kind of one of those last steps or maybe not?but,personally i feel rather than ‘chasing’ we should replace it with ‘pursuing’.                                                             “Always follow your dreams,but take your mind and heart with yourself.”Do not just start walking blindly,have a plan and set the goals.Now,the plan maybe a short term plan or a it may be a small goal,as small as having breakfast in morning or making some time to read even though it might be just 5 mins,it’s okay because the start is always going to be a bit difficult but it’s the amount of dedication and preparation you do that will s...

Have you ever been stuck in a situation or felt like you are glued to a point and everything around is moving but you?I guess we all have felt or experienced that at some point in one or the other way but the thing is when I look back at that,I realised one thing that we often tend to forget.                                            Sometimes,we need to stay where we are and let things come to us and I know it will feel like a very stagnant situation like you have been rooted to ground and there is no growth even though you are being watered and in times like this there is this urge to give up and that’s completely normal but the thing is rather than just giving up try to stop for a second and believe and then put a bit more effort and roll the dice and I know that you were already putting in the efforts but sometimes in that situation when you look around and see people mov...

‘To live is to travel’well ain’t that true?travelling is more than about merely reaching a destination.It’s more on the lines of learning about the destination.what do you imagine when you think about travelling to place,how do you imagine that place to be?a boat house or maybe some hill station with a nice weather and breathtaking view?but what if there’s no nice weather or a breathtaking view in fact what if their is just limited facilities with no view then what?                                                 “The most extra ordinary things are hidden in the most ordinary things,you just have to take that extra effort and walk that extra mile to find it.”This was one thing my Father told me to remember while travelling.At first I didn’t understand what it actually meant but then when you travel it often happens that you want to see the best places they have or tr...

‘Let’s take a timeout’,it’s one of my personal favourite phrase.Now,the problem is we all want timeouts and it’s perfectly fine to take time-outs and try to refresh yourself but what we sometimes fail to understand is that we can’t just take timeout to take timeouts,we have to think about the consequences first and also consider the situation.                               Timeouts are like a pause button for your life and when I say your life that exactly means only and only your life because people around you are still going to do what they have to do it’s you who wants a pause and if you are not careful enough this pause can affect you in a more negative way than positive.That’s why you think before pausing,pause when you think it is right and for some people it might be when they are feeling that they are stuck,they pause,they think,they train and come back strong while for some they pause when they achiev...

“But,Darling don’t forget to fall in love with yourself first”I think we all have heard this before and many of us has also heard that ‘self love’ is important but,why?Is it just because someone said that it is important to love yourself before you learn to love someone else?Absolutely no,we all loved people,our parents,friends before we even before we knew the definition of love but self love is important to set your standards,your priorities and most importantly for your self growth.                                    Now,we always want the people we love to be happy,protected,cared and most importantly we do everything to show them that they are loved and who doesn’t want to feel loved?so we seek this love from our surroundings and that’s alright but sometimes if in the process what if someone you loved or someone who loves you have to leave you?Then we all feel disappointed or sad even we ge...

We are what we decide to be,the most valuable one can make is choose to be what they want and often some of our habits and the people we interact or stay with affects our choice.Now,when we start    doing something that is new to us like we all have our ‘New Year Resolution’ of some it might be to exercise daily or read daily anything that help you grow physically,mentally or spiritually but what happens is we know that the starting is going to be difficult,it will be a bit hard to wake up early or to start reading the first page but the more difficult part is after the first step is to take the next step,now why is it that difficult,we just have to do what you did in the first step but with a bit more effort but what most people do is in the first day of exercise they get up and start doing the various kind of exercise or they start reading and then we all get excited that we took the first step in that we overdo it like if we had to do exercise just for 15 mins or read just...